The people involved in surrogacy cannot always just move past it. The child may struggle to deal with their unusual origins, and surrogates might not appreciate how attached they are to the baby until it is born and will be affected long term.
The majority of adolescents who were born from surrogacy have been described as feeling indifferent about the circumstances of their conception. Studies have also shown that surrogacy has no psychological effects on surrogate mothers from six months onwards.
[P1] Both surrogate and child are affected long-term by the process.
Rejecting the premises
[P1] There is no evidence of long-term effects on either surrogate or child.
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