This perspective is wedded to outdated beliefs that claim the man has no responsibility for his actions, and objectifies women. When men make the decision to cheat, only they can be held accountable.
As Rebecca Reid writes in The Telegraph, "When a man cheats on his wife, it is not because he’s been forced to. He hasn’t been conned into it, or tricked. He has decided that sex with another person is more important, more interesting, more arousing and therefore worth compromising whatever it is that he has committed to at home."