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All children should probably learn to have respect for authority within reason.
Having respect for authority is important for the continued functioning of our current social structures.
Too much respect for authority can be dangerous if authority turns out to be less than desirable.
Especially for marginalized people who have had problems with authority, it makes sense to be wary and cautious. (Or even outright enraged, as the case has been in recent history.)
Strictly focusing on the broader lens of this question, I think that authority should be respected within reason. I think it's important to instill in children the ability to think critically for themselves while respecting authoritative structures as long as they are reputable and warranted.
Of course it's super hard to find that fine line, which is the difficult part. But ultimately teaching children to respect authority within reason seems like it ensures the safety and continued existence of any forms of peaceable cohabitation we have going without having to give way to dangerous over-policing and things like that in the long-run.
Children need to learn respect for authority because it is important to learn at an early age that the world doesn't revolve around you & to develop consideration for other people.
A [relevant definition] (https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/respect) of 'respect' is: "a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated appropriately". I think 'understanding' is a keyword here - [respect shouldn't be forced] (https://medium.com/marleyisms/why-respect-should-be-earned-not-given-b99a16271306), like children being made submissive through threats, punishment or shaming, because this lays the ground for unhealthy relationships in the future.
As children, we are formative, socially developing, still figuring out how to exist in the world and with other people. Both in schools and in family units, respect does need to be learned [for there to be social cohesion] (https://healthyliving.azcentral.com/should-children-play-competitive-sports-1145.html). As adults, people frequently have to coexist & sometimes put either the group interests or that of other people above their own. This isn't a matter of submitting entirely to others or of silencing yourself. Rather, it's about learning when it is appropriate to question authority & when it is appropriate to defer to the expectations or requests of those in authority positions.
There are many different forms of authority - too many to be able to claim that children should universally respect all authoritative figures
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