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sanjana5y ago
Body shaming has reached a point where it is no longer just a type of mocking; instead, it has evolved into a social issue. Some people who body shame believe that it will encourage the ones shamed to lose weight, gain weight, or work out. In fact, body shaming has an opposite impact on the person shamed and can lead to depression, low self-esteem, or sometimes, even suicide. A study by behavioral scientists at University College London found that fat-shaming led people to put on more weight rather than encouraging people to lose weight.
It’s important to understand that weight is affected by more than just calories and exercise. This is not to say that these things don’t matter; of course, they do and can be one of the first things to do if someone is trying to adopt a healthier lifestyle. However, weight problems also stem from psychological and biological factors that are much harder to control. Embarrassing them demotivates them from losing weight. More importantly, if a person is shamed for being too thin or too tall, this may even result in disastrous consequences such as self-cutting or major depressive disorder. Being too slim or too tall, and being too curvy, just like being too fat, are not things that can change overnight. It is uncivil, and not to mention absolutely unnecessary, to critique someone’s body.
Multiple studies have shown that weight criticism causes stress and leads overweight people to eat more calories. A 2019 study published in Pediatric Obesity found that teasing children about their weight is linked to increased weight gain well into adulthood, and the more teasing that kids and teens experience, the more weight they may gain. So, body shaming is positively correlated with weight gain. If body shaming children worked, all children in elementary schools would have the same, conventional body types. This is not the case. One of the most obnoxious aspects of body shaming happens to be the shamer. More often than not, the shamers have a conventional standard of beauty, depending on society’s normative trends. If thigh gaps are trending, the body shamers, usually popular among peers, often are ones with thigh gaps. This leads to other perfectly normal bodies without thigh gaps to be shamed.
However, harm from body shaming does not come only from people. It comes through various avenues like social media, advertisements, art, or literature. Movies often portray a skinny heroine with her fat best friend, such as The Bridesmaids. The token overweight character is always the loveless character, with weird quirks. The slim heroine usually has underlying problems such as bulimia or is shown to have the perfect metabolism to absorb her food habits. Works of art use overweight women as abstract drawings, indicating that they do not have any shape or figure. In general, the entertainment industry either over-do ‘inclusivity’ campaigns that reinforce the “other body types” concept and alienate some specific categories even further. On the other hand, social media paints a stereotypical picture of the perfect couples, “beautiful” men and women, and the general clothing choices deemed trendy that only certain body types can wear with comfort. This creates an expectation to have a certain body type that keeps changing according to celebrities or popular individuals' trends.
An aspect of body shaming often neglected is that it affects all genders and not just the female gender. Body shaming for other genders, especially the male gender, is very prevalent and is equally problematic. Women these days are asked to be either curvy or slim, with an hourglass figure. Men, on the other hand, are expected to be tall and muscular and have abs. In literature, men are shown as gallant warriors, big and strong, and unfortunately, that is reinforced through advertisements, especially about condoms, perfumes, and wrist-watches. However, no matter how this manifests, it often leads to comparison and shame and perpetuates the idea that people should be judged mainly by their physical features.
Sources
https://www.stvincentcharity.com/radiant/posts/obesity-expert-explains-why-body-shaming-is-harmful-not-helpful/
https://www.waldeneatingdisorders.com/blog/body-shaming-what-is-it-why-do-we-do-it/
https://www.healthpartners.com/blog/how-body-shaming-affects-your-health/
https://www.bbc.com/news/health-49714697
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Turi5y ago
It's difficult to disagree with the statement (and your arguments are powerful!) but 'body-shaming' feels like a pretty loaded word already. When my kids tease me for putting on weight, I'm not sure they're shaming me, I think they're looking out for me.
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sanjana5y ago
That is a good point! However, I believe that children do not understand the seriousness of body shaming. Children are only mimicking what society tells them to mock, what they see in the movies, and what they hear in music lyrics. The problem starts when the mocking takes a cruel turn, which often happens towards the end of elementary school and the beginning of middle school. After children have been exposed to social media and the entertainment industry, they become influenced by those notions. Even in the example of family teasing each other about their weight, it can take a toll on someone already insecure about their bodies. Even if it is well-intentioned, most of the time, the teasing is repetitive and hurtful, with an unconscious mocking tone. Instead of teasing, they can offer healthier alternatives such as motivating you to work out, going on a healthy, nutritious diet, or going on outdoor family hikes. When the effort is made together, it creates a positive effect. In fact, I would say that the most profound negative effects of body shaming can come from people one considers closest to them - family, best friends, and boyfriends/girlfriends! It is most hurtful when society already does not believe your body is beautiful, but now even your family doesn't. I will concede to you that point, however, that at times it is genuinely out of concern or good nature. Still, I believe that there is a very fine line between good-spirited teasing on weight gain versus words that profoundly affect that individual.
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Julianne4y ago
Good points here. I do tend to think there is a difference between shaming someone and looking out for them---though I suppose gentler teasing can sometimes fall into the middle of that, making it complicated to discern. Personally, I think that shaming someone for their weight gain is definitely often harmful and unproductive, for sure, since it can make people feel really sad deep down, like a pain that becomes so internalized it even physically hurts. But it is interesting to consider cases where a gentler teasing could be looking out for someone...Overall, though, I think there are probably much better ways to tell someone you care about their health and their feelings than to even lightly shame them for their weight gain, since even those small feelings of shame can add up to a deep and profound sadness over time. And I love the point about how teasing done by those closest to you can sometimes make you feel the worst!
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