This is more of a poll than an opinion.

I think i have a soft heart because i am forgiving and do not like to condemn despite good evidence that i should. The reason i think I have a soft heart is because i hate to condemn. Even if the evidence strongly suggests that a person is not good for me, i will try and find alternative perspectives to look at the evidence or wait for alternative evidence to counter the huge mass of evidence I already have. I also try and give people or endeavours second chances, when the evidence suggests that they are committed to a path, that deserves condemnation or the endeavour is a lost cause. I think a good definition of a hard heart is someone who condemns without chance of forgiveness, or condemns with insufficient evidence or is unforgiving when most others would forgive or give a second chance. I am the opposite of a person like this, i think.