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georgiakeys5y ago
Listening to music just simply does not cut it for me.
In the summer after my A-level exams I found myself working a 9-5 office job in Central London, I loved it. However, one thing I could not stand was the radio playing constantly throughout the day. Since then, I have not once found myself wanting to listen to music. Be it when I’m getting reading in the morning, cooking in the kitchen, or out on my daily lockdown walks.
To me, listening to music is boring, repetitive and uninspiring. Alternatively, I fill my days with the background noise of subpar Netflix shows, podcasts and a worrying number of YouTube true crime documentaries. When I do try and listen to music, it quite literally goes in one ear and out the other, whereas I find myself much more concentrated when listening to something with meaning, of which I can relate to and/or engage with.
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ellikara915y ago
For me, listening to music is all about the expression of personal taste and identity, every person has different tastes in music which reflects the different personalities and thoughts of each individual. Listening to music is all about feelings and memories. I always associate songs with specific memories I have, as well as specific moods everyday. Listening to music also boosts your creativity and opens up your mind. You just have to find the kind of music and songs that best speak to you.
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JenReneeGilley5y ago
Although I disagree from a personal standpoint, I have to say that you make some very valid points:
> "In the summer after my A-level exams I found myself working a 9-5 office job in Central London, I loved it. However, one thing I could not stand was the radio playing constantly throughout the day. Since then, I have not once found myself wanting to listen to music."
As someone with ADHD, I can understand how *constant noise* can ruin an otherwise pleasant experience. What one considers to be noise is irrelevant -- the fact of the matter is, if it's getting on your nerves, then you have a legitimate reason to feel frustrated and even offended by it. Even I get put-out when music is constantly blaring in my ear at the wrong moment -- and I *thrive* on music.
> "When I do try and listen to music, it quite literally goes in one ear and out the other, whereas I find myself much more concentrated when listening to something with meaning, of which I can relate to and/or engage with."
What one finds meaning in is entirely subjective. Even though most people find some measure of meaning in music, that doesn't mean that *everyone* finds meaning in it. Therefore, it is completely reasonable that you should choose to spend your time on activities that you *do* find meaningful -- otherwise it's wasted time, and time is something that you can never get back.
It's exactly as they say: Art is in the eye of the beholder -- and if it offends your senses, you should promptly disengage and go behold something that actually makes you happy.
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mkta5y ago
Listening to music is more than just hearing a song. I wonder what would make the activity less intriguing than anything else which requires listening and an acknowledgement of your own tastes. There are multiple ways to listen to different music and different contexts to do so. A dancer on stage does not listen to music the same way an audio engineer in a professional recording studio does. Even the process of discovering music you like, along with listening to it, is extremely personal due to its subjective nature and can be done over and over again. Approaching the argument here requires addressing music as an art form.
Any art form involves a translation – an expression of the artist to the viewer, listener, or consumer. Music has become a commodity through its presence in everyday environments such as offices, coffee shops, and grocery stores. In reference to my point here, I would only agree that listening to music is overrated in certain *contexts*. Most places that play music do not provide an ideal position to truly acknowledge the artistry of a song, but the act of listening should be valued. Music begs to be heard, grappled with, and given the same attention as a book or a movie.
The ability to listen, as with any art form, comes with the ability to make taste assumptions. Music is often enjoyable for a singer's voice or the quality of the recording, but when you actively listen to a song, you earn what the artist is attempting to invoke. You can discover the layers and the sense of metaphorical and physical (the room it was recorded in) space that is emphasized for the sake of the composition, lyrics, and/or emotional impact. Not finding meaning in music is merely a taste assumption in itself, but considering music in general, or the act of listening to music to be overrated, devalues its genuine intent.
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LeeAnn5y ago
Hi Mark! We are in the same boat. I had to disagree with Georgia too.
I mean, I actually personally know people who don't like and/or listen to music at all. I know, right. How dare they! Especially since I can see and understand how much you love music too. You speak so passionately about it.
Although, I just wanted to point out that Georgia feeling that music is overrated is as a result of a bad experience - if I understand what I read correctly.
And then, like I mentioned above, you get some people that just don't listen to music at all. They can literally survive without having listened to no music at all. True story.
But like that saying goes, "it takes all sorts to make a world."
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LeeAnn5y ago
I don't agree with your opinion, sorry! I mean, in your case specifically (after explaining your situation), I can actually understand why you feel the way you do and what led you to having this opinion.
However, don’t you think that the main reason you feel this way is because you are associating the playing/listening of music to that particular experience you had? That is to say, if the playing of the music never annoyed you, then you most likely would not have felt this way today.
Or let’s say for instance, you had this exact same experience but you enjoyed listening to it in the background. I have a strong feeling that if this were the case, your opinion might have been of a more positive nature and association concerning listening to music.
So just to let you know very briefly, psychology has taught (and provided evidence) over the years that emotions influence how we process memories. Basically, it reiterates what I said above.
By the way, I’d like to know if you had this opinion and felt this way toward music before you’re A-level exams. Of course, you don’t need to answer this question. I am just a naturally curious person and thought that knowing this might provide me with more insight and further understand your situation and opinion better.
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georgiakeys5y ago
Hiya! Thank you for replying, and don't be sorry, I get plenty of grief from my music loving friends haha!
In terms of before my A-levels, I was never massively enamoured by music. I wouldn't rush to listen to music however I would also listen to anything and everything, with no particular emotional connection to a single song or genre. My family isn't musically inclined and we never really had music on when I was a child, saying that though, I do have memories of being subjected to my dad's unique taste in Scottish Gaelic artists - perhaps there's our answer.
I have tried to find genres and artists that appeal to me but ultimately end up getting bored of listening to the same thing.
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LeeAnn5y ago
Well, maybe the next time your friends make fun of your not so musically inclined tastes, you can tell them that not listening to music is also an acquired test.
Oh, so although you were never really a music lover before the whole incident, you didn't feel as strongly as you do now after the incident. This is good to know, including your dad's unique taste in Scottish Gaelic artists.
The only thing that I can think of is that the incident - as I keep calling it, was the catalyst then for you - eventually leading to this opinion (and feeling) that listening to music is overrated.
No biggie at all. FYI, I love music from different cultures and languages too, not just different genres and artists.
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martair5y ago
This is a challenging topic to discuss, I respect your point, but I cannot entirely agree with it. In my opinion, listening to music is therapeutic. Its a form to express a feeling, moods without the necessity to explain nothing.
When I have a bad they or I feel stress about something, listening to music is the best way to find calm. Millions of songs to feel identified or make you happy, sad or change your view about a specific situation. I think music has the same power to write, paint, or read. They all are a different way to express yourself differently.
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