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Children and adolescents are somewhat adequately protected, but could benefit from additional protection
I believe that in some ways we are too protective of children and adolescents. Denying them privacy and losing their trust from a young age is becoming increasingly normal in today's world by parents and being overbearing leaves them with emotional scars and an inability to function. As they become more curious they should be able to explore with appropriate limits and boundaries for their wellbeing and development.
However, on a wider scale, there are different dangers in today's world particularly online that should be highlighted. Grooming and child pornography being two prevalent examples. Being exposed to explicit material that is so easily accessed and the suicide rates of the youth who are bullied and targetted demonstrate areas in which not enough is being done to keep young people safe as they grow and try new things.
Overall, curiosity should be nurtured and young people should be allowed to take risks and make mistakes. Thus sometimes not allowing them to grow up can be harmful and overprotectiveness structurally and in families is a huge issue. However, we should refrain from swinging in the opposite direction and forcing them to grow up so fast. We should foster environments where they can ask questions and receive guidance so that they don't suffer silently due to being unaware of consequences and dangers.
Growing up, I have observed that (most) parents try to do their best to have a balance of letting children explore while also protecting them, but the majority goes too far in one direction or the other. An obscene amount of youth are exposed to p*rn before adolescence, for example. While I grew up with my peers not being allowed to watch age appropriate movies and tv shows. There is almost no balance, either parents are overprotective or let their children do whatever they want.
Focusing just on the idea of fostering curiosity in children and adolescents, I'd say some potentially growth-stunting overprotection occurs.
Children and adolescents are overly protected, especially in the domain of criminal law.
depends on where you grew up
i grew up by crack dens and my relatives who i grew up with were abused heavily by people when they were a kid. i think if my mom was more protective over my internet use then i'd be much better today. lot's of trauma from being a kid online. theres aslo a lot of examples of kids being kidnapped in the city i am in today.
this question heavily relies on where you're located. i dont think there's a wrong answer to this, it just relies on where you live.
also just wanted to say i think my mom is an amazing mother shes a good balance of overprotectiveness and chillness. we were just in bad circumstances.
also she just underestimated the horrors of the internet
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